Prayers for the Family

Prayers for the Family
When we have understood that taufik guidance is only the property of Allah SWT, then it is obligatory for us to always pray, ask Allah Almighty to give the good seed of the Son, and improve family relationships and protect them from things we don't want. Keep the family from unwanted disturbances.
Having a beautiful family is the desire of all humans. And the Prophets and apostles have given some examples to give to good families, one of them is always praying.

And among habits that can strengthen ties in family relationships is to always pray to Allah Almighty. One habit that presupposes prayer for one another among family members. How good it would be if we always prayed for the family we love.

Husbands pray for wives, and parents pray for their children and so on. It's a shame when we pray for each other, really it's still a lot of fuss and fighting.

families are formed to share and pray for one another, That's why for a husband or wife who is not ready to share, selfish ones for example, who are just ready to be happy, even then happy only for himself,it will only complicate the realization of these shared goals. Because happiness is a norm in the family, then it is up to each family to pray for each other.

Here are the prayers

Prayers for the Family.

رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَاماً

That means:

O our Lord, bestow upon us our wives and our descendants as a consolation (we), and make us priests of the charge. (QS. Al-Furqan: 74)

In addition to family prayer there is also prayer and etiquette for the wife of the husband.

Courtesy and Obligation of Wife To Husband

آداب المرأة مع زوجها: دوام الحياء منه، وقلة المماراة له، ولزوم الطاعة لأمره، والسكون عند كلامه، والحفظ له في غيبته، وترك الخيانة في ماله، وطيب الرائحة، وتعهد الفم ونظافة الثوب، وإظهار القناعة، واستعمال الشفقة، ودوام الزينة، وإكرام أهله وقرابته، ورؤية حاله بالفضل، وقبول فعله بالشكر، وإظهار الحب له عند القرب منه، وإظهار السرور عند الرؤية له..
That means:
Man's wife towards husband, that is: always feeling shy, not much debate, always obey his command, silent when the husband is talking,  keep the honor of the husband while he is away, does not know how to keep a husband's estate, keep the body smelling good, the mouth smells nice and is dressed clean, revealed qana & rsquo; ah, display an attitude of compassion, always ornate, honoring her husband's relatives and family, looking at her husband's priorities, accept the work of her husband with gratitude, showing affection to her husband when he was nearby, the joy of seeing a husband.”
Goodbye Wife
1. Always feel ashamed of the husband. A wife always maintains shame to her husband even though he is no longer a newlywed. Of course shame in this context is shame in a positive sense,  such as embarrassment when when body odor causes discomfort; shame on unattractive appearance; or ashamed to behave badly, etc.
2. Not much to discuss. Prolonged debate has the potential to cause tension and conflict. A wife should not argue with her husband about things that are not necessary. However, serious discussions with her husband to find the best solution of a problem should not be avoided. This is precisely in the context of deliberation.
3. Always obey his command. Obeying husband is obligation. However when the husband's order is contrary to the & rsquo;, a wife can raise objections while maintaining modesty and a good way of rejecting it. Or, the wife can propose another alternative to the husband's order.
4. Be quiet when the husband is talking. A wife should listen carefully to what her husband is saying. If he intends to interrupt his conversation, he should seek his approval first. If it turns out the husband does not give permission, the wife should be quiet and not protest loudly in order to prevent tension.
5. Keep your husband's honor while he is away. A wife should still behave well even if the husband is not at home. In a situation like this a wife should not take advantage of the opportunity to have fun following the passions, for example with a very loose association. This is not very good because it could potentially cause slander.
6. Unsure of taking care of her husband's property. A wife is the most trusted husband to take care of his wealth. This belief should not be betrayed by unnecessary scattering. Especially if the property is used for certainty it will cause a bad question in the future.
7. Keeping your body smelling good. A wife should maintain her body odor in such a way that the husband feels comfortable beside her. However, this does not mean a wife has to take a perfume bath. Regular baths with water and soapy baths are the easiest way to keep your body fresh.
8. The mouth smells fresh and is clean. Not only related to body odor, but also bad breath should be a concern of the wife, which is always fresh. Likewise, the clothes he wears everyday should also be clean. All this is so that they are equally comfortable in interacting both inside and outside the home.
9. Showing qana & rsquo; ah. A wife should not demand more than what her husband can give her. He should be grateful for any amount or form of grant. However, this does not mean that a wife must not encourage and pray for her husband to be even more advanced in the economic or other fields.
10. display an attitude of compassion. A wife should be compassionate to her husband for all his labors. Do not let him be rude or even oppress a husband whose condition is weak, like sick. Moreover, deliberately hurt his feelings with insults that demean him. However, she must love her husband with all her heart. .
11. Always ornate. A wife should always appear attractive in front of her husband. Many benefits from this, for example, the husband becomes more comfortable at home and is not compelled to look for reasons to leave the house.
12. Honoring relatives and family members. A wife should always be aware that a husband generally has a strong emotional relationship with relatives and family. Therefore a wife should be able to treat her husband's relatives and family with respect without questioning their social status.
13. Looking at your husband's statement with priority. Whatever the situation of the husband, a wife should be able to accept it as reality. If her husband is doing well, a wife should give thanks for pleasure. Otherwise, a wife should be patient. Gratitude and patience are a priority of Allah Almighty.
14. Receive husband's work with gratitude. Whatever the husband's income, a wife should be grateful. By giving thanks for His blessings, God will add other pleasures.
15. Showing love to her husband was nearby. A wife should always show her love for her husband especially when he is near her. This is because one of the goals of forming a household is to form a family that loves each other.
16. It makes her happy to see her husband. Whenever and wherever a wife meets her husband, it should always show happiness. This is very important because generally the husband feels happy when he sees his wife happy.
That Family Prayer And Prayer Adab wife Husband Hopefully Helpful Husband.

Other Prayers :

  • The prayer of Zechariah
  • Prayer Out Mani
  • Prayer Entering the Market

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