Prayer Before Relationship
Prayer before having sexual relations between husband and wife or Jima
Rasûlullâh Shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam taught prayers and dhikr for his people in various aspects of life.. These prayers and dhikr are very important for Muslims to practice because the best prayer and dhikr texts come from revelation which does not contain the slightest error..
What is required in Islam is prayer before a man interferes with his wife.
This prayer is said before having marital relations and not in the middle or after. The law of reading this prayer is sunnah and ustahab
Satan will not participate in this intimate relationship because this prayer begins with the mention of "bismillah".
Prayer Before Having Sex Jima
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنِى الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا
Bismillahi allahumma jannibnis syaitan wa jannibis syaithan ma razaqtana
That means:
With the name of Allah , Oh God, keep Satan away from me ,and keep it away from what You will provide for us children or descendants.
Islamic Intimate Manners
There is a manner of etiquette taught by Islam when a husband and wife want to express their desire to make love. Following are the etiquettes during jima', making love or having sex in bed.
1- The intention is to seek reward.
That is, making love is intended to protect oneself from adultery / have an affair, produce offspring, and hope for reward as a form of charity.
2. warming up and kissing first.
That is the reason why the Prophet sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam recommends marrying a virgin because you can flirt with her before making love.
3. Read before the relationship is made.
which is recommended to read is: Bismillah, Allahumma jannibnaasy syaithoona wa jannibisy syaithoona maa rozaqtanaa.
4. Fucking the wife from any direction except not the anus.
5. It is not recommended to have sexual intercourse with a wife from the anus.
6. When repeating intimate relations, it is recommended to perform ablution first.
7. After having intimate intercourse, it is obligatory to take a bath even if no semen comes out.
8. it is not permissible to have sexual intercourse with a woman while she is menstruating.
9. It is permissible to withdraw the penis from the woman's vagina before ejaculation occurs.
10. Don't tell secrets when you're in bed.
Make it a Habit!
Shaykh 'Abdullah Al Fauzan hafizhohullah said, “A Muslim should be enthusiastic about practicing this prayer when having sex until it becomes a habit. He should do it in order to practice the Prophet's advice shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam and in order to produce offspring who are safe and protected from satanic interference, also to get blessings from this prayer” (Minhatul 'Allam, 7: 348).
Ibn Hajar said, "The benefit shown in this prayer is that it is sunnah to recite bismillah and pray and make it a routine to the point of pleasure such as in intimate relationships". (Fathul Bari, 9: 229).
The hadith we are discussing shows that Satan will disturb humans in all conditions. When sleeping, when waking up from sleep, Satan will continue to give you misgivings. If someone neglects to remember Allah, then Satan will interfere.
But if you remember Allah, the devil will run and hide. Therefore, let's make it a habit to continue dhikr, reading ta'awudz, berdo’a, so that we are protected from Satan's interference (The advice of Shaykh 'Abdullah Al Fauzan in Minhatul 'Allam.
The goodness of this prayer will also affect the offspring that result from this intimate relationship. The proof is the history of Mursal however hasan from 'Abdur Razaq where it is mentioned,
إِذَا أَتَى الرَّجُل أَهْله فَلْيَقُلْ بِسْمِ اللَّه اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ لَنَا فِيمَا رَزَقَتْنَا وَلَا تَجْعَل لِلشَّيْطَانِ نَصِيبًا فِيمَا رَزَقْتنَا ، فَكَانَ يُرْجَى إِنْ حَمَلْت أَنْ يَكُون وَلَدًا صَالِحًا
“If someone comes to his wife (have sex), then say 'Ya Allah, bless us and the offspring produced from this intimate relationship, do not let Satan become part of our descendants'. From this prayer, if his wife is pregnant, then the child born is expected to be a pious child” (Fathul Bari.
Other Prayers :
- Prayers Enter the Grave
- Mirror Prayer
- Abu Nawas Poetry
- Nariyah's ridge
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